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Andrea Zonnis

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Andrea Zonnis

Self-Worth – You’ll Only Get What You Ask For.

20 November 2020

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If you would have asked me a year ago if I had self-worth issues I would have said, “oh, hell no” but this weekend has taught me a valuable lesson.  An amazing opportunity came up, I actually thought it was a joke, so I asked for what I would normally consider a crazy amount of money.  When the E-transfer arrived in my inbox, I was in shock.  Then the guilt came in – was I worth this?

As spirit always does through my readings, the next group of fabulous amazing young women I read for were also suffering from this, ding, ding, ding.  I am so grateful that this opportunity as it allowed me to experience these feelings and come to realization that this is something I need to work on in myself.

How a lack of self-worth manifests in our lives:

  1. Over independence.  A feeling that you have to do everything on you own.  This comes from a place of feeling that you don’t deserve help from others.  You do!
  2. Ignoring compliments and over focusing on criticism.  You can have 5 people that mean the world to you tell you how awesome you are and then you get 1 person that doesn’t really give a shit about you and where do you focus your energy?  You got it, on the negative.  Remember the compliments and kind words.
  3. Staying in the comfort zone.  Still in the job you’ve had forever even though you have a dream of what you want to do with you r life?  Take a chance!
  4. Guilt or mis-trust of amazing opportunities.  It’s easy to believe in the false ideas of our egos, that we don’t deserve the blessings and gifts of the universe and friends.  You deserve to be happy.
  5. Going with other people’s flow.  You don’t want to be difficult do you ?  Yup, been there.  Hiding your own needs and desires in order to “fit in.”  You are loved just the way you are.

The truth is you deserve help from others, we all do.  This is what community and society is all about lifting up the people around us and also allowing them to do the same for us.  Focus on the people that care about you, their options are the ones that actually matter.  Take a chance: not everyone is a mind reader, if you don’t ask for it, how to you expect to receive it?  ASK!  The worst thing that can happen is that someone will say no, but the possibility of someone saying yes or perhaps leading you to the next opportunity is high.  People like helping!  You know how good it feels when you’re able to help someone, don’t deny a person the opportunity to have this feeling by helping you.

Each of us is unique in our own way and has a special purpose on this planet. 

The way to discover this purpose is inside each of us.  The Universe will reflect back at us what we desire but it’s up to us to listen and cease the day.

Go your own way, do your own thing and own that time for yourself.  The more you practice self-worth by accepting compliments, positive self-talk and asking for what you need – the easier it will get.

My mind is blown and now that I’m aware I can take positive steps to build myself up in an authentic way.  I hope you do the same.  You deserve good things.

Thanks for reading - Andrea

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